So unbelievably, my sister cancelled our trip to Japan just because I wouldn't submit to her and follow her orders. I was kinda against the idea at first, thinking there was a chance she will become bossy, but my mom said it was fine and she seemed fine planning the whole trip. At first, she didn't seem to mind planning the trip, and i was just going along with it since I wasn't worried about paying for the major expenses like hotel or planes. Few weeks left to go, I notice she gets bossy, but I wanted to not get into an argument before the trip.
So less than a week left to go, she gets even more bossy and starting to become a bridezilla version of traveling. She started hounding me down that I had to go pay for boarding for my bunnies, even though my mom agreed to take care of them. I told her many times, no that costs money, and mom already agreed. She said I was being selfish to mom and kept demanding I go pay for boarding, and I hung up on her.
Then she called me back threatening me that she is ready to cancel the trip if I don't listen to her. I just had enough and I told her to just cancel it and to stop bothering me. I was not going to beg her not to cancel the trip because I knew from there, this trip was already a bad idea. She expected to be top dog on this trip and I am to be the bottom bitch who is expected to listen to her. I knew she would either cancel the trip thinking she is gonna try to get back at me, or she will realize she needs to calm the **** down and compromise. She ended up cancelling the trip, which I am not surprised, but I have very little respect for her now that she would do something so drastic because she couldn't have her way. I was willing to make amends and still try going, but she already canceled everything without thinking it over, so I didn't care at that point.
She wasted my time for a trip I could have planned for myself, she likely wasted a ton of my parent's money as they were helping us out with this trip cancelling our plane & hotels. All because she couldn't get her way with me. I have little respect for anyone who would cancel a trip that cost a few $1000 bucks just because they wanna try get back at someone. I'm so glad I put no money into this trip, I am hoping if any money was lost, it was mostly her money, but my parents claim to have insurance or that they will get their money back. I'm not sure if they really lost money, and they just wanna cover up her selfish act.
But still, even without the money part, I'm still pissed. She's ****ing 33 years old and she still acting like a 8-15 year old older sister. And she seems to have no remorse to lose a few thousand dollars just because she wants to get back at me. ****ing stupid, I hope she gets less money when my parents decide to do their will and if she asks for a fair share, I will tell her to go **** off since she has no respect for money.
So less than a week left to go, she gets even more bossy and starting to become a bridezilla version of traveling. She started hounding me down that I had to go pay for boarding for my bunnies, even though my mom agreed to take care of them. I told her many times, no that costs money, and mom already agreed. She said I was being selfish to mom and kept demanding I go pay for boarding, and I hung up on her.
Then she called me back threatening me that she is ready to cancel the trip if I don't listen to her. I just had enough and I told her to just cancel it and to stop bothering me. I was not going to beg her not to cancel the trip because I knew from there, this trip was already a bad idea. She expected to be top dog on this trip and I am to be the bottom bitch who is expected to listen to her. I knew she would either cancel the trip thinking she is gonna try to get back at me, or she will realize she needs to calm the **** down and compromise. She ended up cancelling the trip, which I am not surprised, but I have very little respect for her now that she would do something so drastic because she couldn't have her way. I was willing to make amends and still try going, but she already canceled everything without thinking it over, so I didn't care at that point.
She wasted my time for a trip I could have planned for myself, she likely wasted a ton of my parent's money as they were helping us out with this trip cancelling our plane & hotels. All because she couldn't get her way with me. I have little respect for anyone who would cancel a trip that cost a few $1000 bucks just because they wanna try get back at someone. I'm so glad I put no money into this trip, I am hoping if any money was lost, it was mostly her money, but my parents claim to have insurance or that they will get their money back. I'm not sure if they really lost money, and they just wanna cover up her selfish act.
But still, even without the money part, I'm still pissed. She's ****ing 33 years old and she still acting like a 8-15 year old older sister. And she seems to have no remorse to lose a few thousand dollars just because she wants to get back at me. ****ing stupid, I hope she gets less money when my parents decide to do their will and if she asks for a fair share, I will tell her to go **** off since she has no respect for money.
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