You're completely and totally missing the point here... So much so it's hard to even figure out a way to explain it to you... I'll try though...
You bought a car with X specifications that it met when you bought it, no issues. You were not told in any way, shape, or form, that there were any limitations to your use of the car. Sometime after the purchase the cars software is updated to impose limits that didn't exist when you bought it. Those limits were not agreed upon by you, you didn't ask for them, the manufacturer simply dropped them on you without notification, explanation, or reasoning. To add more insult to injury, you didn't even find this out from the manufacturer, you had to read about it online. These limits were imposed upon you in an attempt to save the manufacturer money on warranty claims/bad PR for said warranty claims. Again, at NO time were you EVER given the option to opt out, consent, even be notified that anything was changed.
How could anyone possibly argue that's "acceptable" or "the right thing to do"??? Don't give me this BS about "responsible driving"... Responsible to who? The owner or the manufacturer? That's so completely and highly subjective that it's not even worth trying to make an argument out of but that's what you've chosen to do...
What Tesla is doing here is WRONG, there is no other way to describe it. It's simply wrong. It's also likely illegal as well should anyone try to push this from a litigation standpoint. What Tesla SHOULD do is publicly admit they did this, why they did it, who EXACTLY it affects (model/battery/whatever), and then REFUND those owners ludicrous upgrade charges (I don't know what cars are affected as I haven't read the entire thread so I'm not sure if it's only those who upgrade post delivery or whatever), plus something else for being lied to and deceived.
I don't have any issue with Tesla doing this from a technical standpoint. My issue comes from how they chose to do it, chose to attempt to hide it, chose to deceive the owners.
I just don't understand how ANYONE could DEFEND Tesla here, their actions are indefensible. I get called a fanboy all of the time here, and I defend Tesla quite regularly, but I simply cannot in good conscious defend this...
Jeff