I wonder if this vigilance is also a result of your aviation training and experience. I'm not a pilot, but I'm somewhat familiar with the aviation culture, and there are a number of concepts and themes from flight training that seem to be useful in driving, like verifying settings and controls and not trusting/assuming that they just work correctly. Any thoughts?
Bruce.
PS. Going further off topic, thank you for your service. The California ANG wing in my hometown used to fly the F-4D, and their departure path went over my high school...got very used to hearing those twin turbines passing overhead just after lunchtime.