It started preconditioning as soon as I left
That's probably part of the problem. Recently there have been reports of pre-conditioning starting very early (but occurring in steps, rather than being on flat-out) This can result in so much being used for preconditioning that SatNav then has to route to a closer Supercharger (if there is one).
Unless / until this changes you might want to navigate to "near" the Supercharger, so that preconditioning doesn't come on, and then change TO the Supercharger when, say, 30 minutes away
I work on the basis of arriving at Supercharger with somewhere between 10% and 20% . As I get closer I get more comfortable with 10%, or lower. If predicted arrival is falling to 10%-ish and I'm a long way out I slow down, if I'm getting close and I have more then I speed up. (At Supercharger the car will charge faster than the extra juice you used from driving faster [
up to at least 90 MPH], so journey is quicker, over all). If I'm only 10 or 20 miles away I'm happy with predicted arrival being < 5%.
Charge at the Supercharger (which you can reach!)
nearest to your destination. The Supercharger furthest away is the shortest distance to destination, and least contingency needed for that final/later "leg". Also, if you are held up in slow traffic / roadworks your consumption will be lower, and you will need less top-up. If you stop at an earlier Supercharger you are more likely to over-fill for contingency. If you get badly held up, and drive a significant portion at slow speed, you will only need a splash-and-dash, or may even be able to skip for a more distant Supercharger ... or even reach your destination without charging.
If predicted arrival SoC looks tight then:
Slow down! 50MPH uses significantly less juice than 70MPH.
Get behind a big truck. You don't have to be close, a safe follow distance is fine. Driving behind a truck will also prevent you from "
just nudging the accelerator a bit" .... well "In my experience" it does ...
I think there are two out-of-range-journey scenarios:
#1 You need one re-charge stop. You cannot reach destination, but there is charging available on arrival. You only need to top-up just enough to get there. If that is a 50-mile top-up then you will only be stopped for 5 minutes or so. You don't need to fill-the-tank, like with ICE
Assuming your destination electricity is overnight / cheap then you presumably don't want to pay for "extra contingency" at Supercharger prices.
When at Supercharger put destination into SatNav (if not already there) and use "Continue journey", then check the CONSUMPTION screen and the TRIP TAB. That will probably be showing predicted arrival "negative". As it goes up you can depart when it reaches, say, 10% predicted arrival (whatever you are comfortable with).
However, I have had legs where I have done that and arrived with far more than that (even without slow traffic / roadworks). On that particular trip
ABetterRoutePlanner did have the right prediction, so I factor that in now - just in case the Car is over cautious. (Actually, thinking about that, the only time that has happened was at Calais, and I wonder if the car thought it had to drive through the tunnel!! ... anyway, I find having ABetterRoutePlanner's data helpful)
#2 You need to Supercharge twice, or multiple times, to get to your destination - a longer drive-charge-drive-charge journey.
ABetterRoutePlanner plans such that I arrive at next Supercharger at 10%. This is best for charging, as car charges fastest around 10%, but contingency is low. I prefer to charge to 70% (more only if the next leg requires it). I reckon, up to 70%, any inefficiency (i.e. best would be "charge less here, and more at next stop") is tiny, and I would prefer to have the contingency. A bit more here, a bit less at the next one.
Ideally I charge to 100% before departure, and then charge to 70-80% at each stop. That gives me a maximum motorway first leg of 3h and subsequent legs of 2h30m. In practice the Superchargers are not perfectly spaced, so each leg is 1h30m upwards, and very rarely the ideal 2h30m maximum.
If I have a stop for a meal I make sure to arrive at 10%, or less, and to charge to 95+%. That takes an hour and gives me time for a meal - and probably means I skip one stop during the overall trip.
Wet roads are evil. They use a lot of energy, and slowing down only fixes the Aero aspect. When we have Rapid Charging at every Services I may choose to go for minimum-charging, but until then I use a contingency-charging level that avoids squeaky-bum syndrome