So if the wiring is 50A hot-hot-neutral, an electrician should be able to rewire the circuit for hot-hot-ground and install a Nema 6-50 which you can but a tesla adapter for ($40). Have him install it with the ground lug up.
I have one for charging at my parents house and it works fine. AFAIK no Tesla adapter uses the neutral.
But some of the Nema plugs require it.