With a typical car, you will need to replace certain items at recommended intervals. Some parts may or may not wear out with age. The question is whether I'd be more likely to need new brake pads than to need to have my fuel injectors or window motors replaced on another car. Would you consider the pads any more of a maintenance item than the clutch on the AC compressor? Both are subject to regular uniform wear.
I'm replacing an Infiniti M45 that went almost 65K miles on the front pads. I changed the rear slightly later and estimate that they could have gone to about 80K. So even standard pads on a car that does 0-60 in a similar amount of time don't necessarily need replacing all that often. Brake pads will wear faster when overheated. On a Tesla, they might not be used enough that there's a loss of friction from heat. Assuming my driving habits don't get worse, and the pads are of similar quality and sized (factoring in vehicle weight) appropriately, then good pads could last me that long with no regenerative braking. So they could easily last me over 300K miles. And I've never kept a car that long.
When you change tires, you might also consider the TPMS. The sensors in the wheels only last 8-12 years on a typical car. So is that a maintenance item? Not by most standards.
Some things are simply subject to wear. I might need a new windshield before I need new brake pads simply because it's more likely that stray items will leave enough pin sized chips that it would affect visibility. It's subject to wear and tear.
BTW, if you count brakes, that means at least eight more items to change. These days, or ever since it became common to make brake rotors that aren't integrated into the hubs, the price of rotors has been low enough that for recent brake jobs I haven't considered it worth my time to take the existing ones in to be turned, and simply replaced them. So that would be 12 items. Speaking of wheel bearings, those were traditionally a wear and tear item. They are no longer a 30,000 mile item, and might last long enough that there's no specific interval given for changing them, but if we follow the trend of not considering traditional maintenance items that now might last as long as you will reasonably own the car, then it makes sense not to count brakes.
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Heck my fob is showing a lot of wear. I expect to replace the whole thing at some point...
I've heard of service centers replacing them for free if you have the service plan.