I really hate this too. All other cars let “auto” mode operate while keeping recirculation active or always on. This resets every time you get in the car and you have to press the recirc button. I left bug report on it complaining lol. Maybe more of you should report if you think this is a good feature.
I agree - humidity is fine, don’t want to smell old burned up dino fuel while I’m sitting behind 1,000 exhaust pipes on the 405 fwy.