Wow, my experiences are quite different, as is how I think about this. I see fan speed and temperature as 2 different things. The A/C system can be more hot or more cold, regardless of the fan speed. This is how every prior car I ever had worked, as well. Before the recent software upgrade, on Auto, the fan speed was fully controlled by the car, based on whether the car was yet at the desired temperature. So, higher fan at first, and lower fan for temperature maintenance, if conditions (outdoor temperature) allowed it.
After the upgrade, the user could now change the fan speed--just with 3 selections of low, medium, or high--while still keeping the temperature control on Auto.
In my car, I try to use this, but it's of no value, because I like a lot of air at times, even if the temperature is about right, but even when I turn it to High, the air flow is minimal. I then turn off the Auto to see where the fan is, and it's usually at 3 or 4. High? Not.
Also for me, when go between Auto on and Auto off, the fan speed returns to the number 1 - 10, so I am surprised to read that for other folks it stays as Low, Medium, High, and will not automatically adjust.