"Destination fee" is one of those things you cant negotiate on a car deal at a traditional car dealership. They all charge destination (as you pointed out in later posts). Now, some dealerships ALSO will tack on a "delivery fee" which is just an add on fee they are taking on there. The destination charge IS the delivery fee, and cant be negotiated out.
If you are buying a car at a traditional dealership, and find both a "destination charge" (which everyone will see) AND a "delivery fee" that second one can be taken out.
Its not like I am "pooh poohing" your transportation idea, but your idea basically boils down to "People who pick up from the factory should not have to pay destination charge, how about giving us PPF or something else for that fee instead" and that isnt happening.