Just to clarify (because you may very well mean 2018), did you take delivery between 1/1/18-1/3/18? Or did you actually mean in 2017? I asked the OA about moving the car to a 'free' delivery region and catching a flight to take delivery and she said it would still cost $1,000 for them to ship it from Fremont. So I feel as though they've changed their policies to prevent circumvention. Because I too, like you, would enjoy that road trip back home!
Sorry, yes, meant 2017 - took delivery in October. At that point they gave me the options of Tempe or Las Vegas for free. I would still push and see what they can do for you...at the 11th hour, they called and said they had a new program and could ship it to my house for free - but I would have lost the walk-through with the delivery specialist (and the option to cure any defects, as you had to sign that you were taking delivery as-is), and also had already bought the airline tickets so we still flew out to AZ.