I went for the P3D because i diddn't like the look of the Aero wheels .. well it wasn't the only reason of course and I dont regret getting the Perfomance model ;-)
But i have to say after seeing Model 3s with the Aeros fitted i do actually quite like them - they are much darker than they appear in pictures! I'd actually quite like a set to use for winter tyres - just a shame the don't fit the P3D.