It's all part of the adventure of owning a Roadster!
The combination of the two adapters... Jdapter Stub (Tesla > J1772) + J1772 > Roadster... is almost certainly the issue. The Sharp CAN-SR you ordered should hopefully address this as that single adapter will replace both of them and is much better constructed. Also, you shouldn't charge at 70A unless you need that rapid a fill. Anecdotally, many of us have found the sweet spot for the Roadster under normal conditions to be around 24A.
The combination of the two adapters... Jdapter Stub (Tesla > J1772) + J1772 > Roadster... is almost certainly the issue. The Sharp CAN-SR you ordered should hopefully address this as that single adapter will replace both of them and is much better constructed. Also, you shouldn't charge at 70A unless you need that rapid a fill. Anecdotally, many of us have found the sweet spot for the Roadster under normal conditions to be around 24A.