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Since you deleted the connection "in the car, to the phone", you should also delete the connection "in the PHONE, to the car". in other words, delete it on both ends, both in the car (which it sounds like you already did) and on the phone (which its not clear whether you tried or not).
After deleting on both ends, then try pairing it again.