Agree with everything you said. I do wish they would total the car out, highly doubt that will happen.
The car has a hidden hitch and was every so slightly rolling forward when it was hit. I believe this contributed towards a favorable outcome.
The trunk open and closes fine. Parking sensors work, car drives, charges, etc.
I’ll update this post with an estimate. Part of me wants to order a lid and bumper cover from eBay, have a shop spray it and fix it myself. The carfax scar bothers me.
I’ll go after the insurance company for diminished value and see if I can end up in a model X.