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I submitted my inquiry to the Code inquiry board on the the ESASAFE website and had it confirmed by 2 separate responses that provided you have one year of historical hourly usage that demonstrates capacity (based on max hourly load + 25%), you are good. With that I figured i would just do it myself. While according to the info I got from the ESA, I had capacity for up to 70A of additional load, I opted for a 40A service as the SR+ can only accept 32A.
Inspector came a couple of days later and gave the all good, using only the historic usage, didn't even ask for a load calculation.
Went with a 40A breaker, 6AWG wire, and a nema 14-50 receptacle. All in, it cost a little over $200 and a couple hours of time for the install and permit/inspection.