We've had our car for about 6 weeks now and it's been mostly positive feedback:
Friends and neighbors and I have been whooshing up and down our rural street cackling madly-- it's fun and infectious, spreading the Tesla grin.
Bicyclists seem to love the Model S-- we get a lot of bike racers in our neighborhood on the weekends and they always wave and thumbs up the car as we cruise silently by. Maybe they appreciate the lack of foul exhaust fumes in their face as they are laboring up our hills.
Other EV owners (especially Leaf owners) usually wave and smile. Some Prius owners refuse to acknowledge the car's existence. Of course, when we see another Model S, there's usually a frenzy of lights flashing, hand gestures, unintelligible shouts and smiles as we glide past each other.
Kids, most of all, get the most excited: in parking lots, on the streets, at stop signs and stoplights-- kids will smile, wave, laugh, point, tug on their parents, yell "cool car!"-- it's almost embarrassing, but it's cool to see kids get it, even when their parents are like, "Tesla? Isn't that a rock group from the 80's?" We do end up connecting with an eighties hair band head banging salute, if nothing else.
There have been some negatives, too:
Probably the worst are the guys in pseudo-hot cars (think rice rockets and shelbys) that feel the need to aggressively cut me off or otherwise challenge me. One guy refused to let me pass him by weaving between two lanes, even though he was going less than the speed limit. This never happened to me in my Prius.
Like PhilBa's experience, a lot of angry guys in fast-ish cars...and yes, it never happened to me in my Prius either. Of course, I don't think I ever drove my Prius around with a s**t eating grin plastered permanently to my face...
I've gotten a lot of "Boy, I wish I was as rich as you are so I could afford one."-- This is a hard one, because I do feel lucky to afford a Model S, but as I try to tell people, it's not without sacrifice and frankly, it's the first car of this price range that I felt like I could justify buying-- even now, I feel a little defensive about it! (could be years of Catholic upbringing?) I usually go on into full Tesla ambassador spiel: This is an American company, designed and built in California, I love their vision of the future and if they can succeed now, just wait til the Gen III!, etc...
I had paint splashed on the car while it was parked at work once (which I think was an honest mistake that someone probably freaked out and took off-- probably almost as much as I freaked out when I came out and saw it-- thank goodness it came right off!) I haven't heard of any other acts of vandalism to EV's...
Overall, I've met a lot of really interested, supportive people who are genuinely intrigued by Tesla, by EVs and are looking for viable alternatives to break from the yoke of Big oil. I've gotten into in depth discussions about infrastructure, energy policy with complete strangers. I've high fived little kids in Canada. I've chatted with people while charging at random places around the northwest. It's been an amazing ride so far and it looks like that part of it will never change!
I look forward to what the next six weeks, six months and six years will bring!