Sorry for the long delay on the progress. I passed the state inspection despite the Rear RH quarter panel being mangled. Inspector never even mentioned it. I wonder what the standards are exactly but didn't want to ask and push my luck.
With the title I was now able to get the registration. And then with that I called Tesla and had them add the car to my Tesla account and surprise the Tesla app works!!
I was so excited about this I drove the nearest supercharging station to see if it would charge but didn't get lucky here. Supercharging had been disabled. I called Tesla customer service about this and after being passed to every possible department and spending close to 4hrs on the phone with them I was no closer to getting the supercharging enabled by them then when I had fist called. It was a frustrating experience with them. At first I wanted to do it there way and get the car inspected but they make the process so difficult that I decided to just find someone to root the car and enable it that way.
I went to work on fixing the wheels that had bad curb damage. I smoothed the jagged edges with a dremel and flap wheel and filled the gaps with body filler. Then I plasti dipped the wheels Matte Anthracite Gray. While the wheels were off I painted the calipers red and added white Tesla decals I bought off ebay.
I ended up finding a body shop that fixed my existing quarter panel so I ended up selling my used good one. Body shop charged me $3000 to fix the quarter panel and repaint all the damaged panels to include front and rear bumper and that quarter. Came out really good and better than I expected. You would have a hard time telling there ever was damage to the car now.
I got the windows tinted.
Final step was I found someone to remotely root the car and enable the supercharging. I just did this step this afternoon and now have access to the diagnostic areas of the MCU. I will test the supercharging tommorow but I am confident it will work now. Car is 100% back to normal, I have a functional app and supercharging should be working all for under $31,000 plus my labor.