I ordered around the same time as you, took delivery in December 2016. The screen cap I posted above is the description of EAP features that we clicked on when we ordered our cars.
Yes, essentially none of that was actually available when I took delivery. Hell I didn’t even have automatic headlights or a brightness sensor for the interior screens when I picked my car up, let alone TACC and Autosteer. But if you ordered your car in Nov 2016 with EAP, you clicked the box above and purchased all off the features described - so they’re most definitely owed to you.