Thank you all for the welcome, responding en mass:
1) totally agree with new owner "crib sheet " need....I was about to reply to another post that was 3 years old, and someone else had a year ago, and I learned that late reply's are flagged as potential spam (which of course makes sense) but I have also seen (like on the VMS reboot thread) how links to older posts can be used (when I figure that out...will add any goodies!)
2) It just came with the standard 110V cable, (alas no 220, used and I believe the prior owner is taking advantage of selling bits on ebay), but have ordered the Tesla mobile (surprisingly current price at Tesla was cheaper than ebay) and the Tesla wall charger (which is back in stock, again cheaper than ebay). NOw for both of those Tesla charging units (I have learned on this web site) a roadster adapter is needed and I got Henry's Can Jr and Can Sr to address the J1772 and proprietary Tesla Gen 2 issues. NOt sure if kosher to plug by listing web site, so I will defer but you can find the CANs on this forum by searching. They will allow me to charge at "destination" chargers out there, but alas the Tesla supercharger stations are not available /compatible with the roadster (well at least not without mods, and I am not there yet). She charge to 188 mi range (regular not range charge, 40amp)...only 9950 miles on her so we hopefully will have lots of wine country jogs and well within range. I also found the website for finding charging stations on this forum as not commercial I think it is safe to give:
PlugShare - Find Electric Vehicle Charging Locations Near You.
3) Alas to all of those impala fans, the car next to my blue baby is our Prius V (need trunk space for mom's wheel chair etc)
4) Thanks for the herb garden understanding
I have found (perhaps of interest to new owners, old forum user's are probably aware) both EU and US sites for service manual and the tesla part lists (albiet for "general public"...amazing what you can find with google.
Other things I have learned on this site:
Never allow dealer to wash car, (she had her first bath yesterday with microfiber after coming home filthy from dealer)
The EU folks seem happier with service than US (but not always)
That, reminisent of 2004 when I was first driving my Prius (and when you ran across one (rarely in those days) both would smile and wave!), roadster owners seem very special and helpful.