I look forward to the pics!
It does seem like everyone's experience is somewhat unique. I've certainly had much longer waits with far less info for ICE vehicles.
I have no complaints at all about my order experience and info flow from Tesla so far. In my case, I received an email in less than an hour of placing the order from a SA in Las Vegas. No idea why I was assigned a remote SA. She was very responsive and eventually connected me to a delivery manager (also Las Vegas based) for my more detailed questions about delivery. He has also been very responsive and clear. He is blunt that what he can share is based on anecdotal experience, not some magical system level detail. As one would expect it is with few exceptions all algorithm based.