Since you "disagreed" with my post above that just provides the Webster definition of disaster (I guess you should publish your own dictionary)...
I'll "disagree" with the bolded part of your post above. If that qualifies as one of the worst experiences someone would have to endure, you either have a flair for hyperbole or are 12 years old and have not experienced true tragedies in yours or loved ones' lives.
Sitting on the side of the road without updates is neither a "disaster" (as the OP agrees) nor one of the worst experiences... It is frustrating, and inconvenient, and should not happen if Tesla (and the local companies they contract with) provide the service in a timely, professional manner.
My daughter went through a similar experience on the way to the airport to pick me up. Oh the horror. She and I had to wait two hours while the tow company Tesla contracted was slow to respond. We both chalked it up to "stuff happens" and went on our way a little later than planned.
Life is about how you choose to respond to the challenges and situations that are thrown your way.