I have 18" aero wheels that I run for part of the year and 20" Tsportline TS5 that I run for the rest of the year. Driving the same 70/30 mix of highway/city driving I use roughly 255wh/mi with the 18s and 275wh/mi with the 20s. I also tend to run the 18s in colder months so the differences would likely be a little larger if comparing apples to apples in terms of ambient temperature and HVAC use.
Electricity is so cheap, I drive so little, and the car is so efficient that I don't really notice the range difference honestly. It costs like $6 to charge from 20% to 85% and I charge once maybe twice a week. Other advantages for the 18s is that they have cheaper tires, ride smoother, and are more resistant to rim damage from potholes...
Personally I am willing to deal with the more expensive tires, small decrease in efficiency, and increased exposure to rim damage because I love how the car looks and handles on the 20s. Up to you if you think it is worth it.