Clomer
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How does your GF feel about it? As long as you are in a serious relationship with her, she should be involved in major financial decisions. If she's not on board with it, that should end the consideration right there unless and until you can convince her otherwise. This is especially true given that you are looking at her potential future income in your considerations.
Other than that, I can share you my thoughts on my personal situation:
I'm in a similar situation to you, though I don't make quite as much money as you. However, I anticipate that my income will increase by a fairly significant amount in the next few years (I've reached a point where I can see a clear career path to get to where I want to be). I could stretch to afford a Model 3 right now, but in discussions with my wife, we've determined that it would be better to buy a house first. One reason for this is that we are renting, and there isn't any realistic prospect of being able to charge an EV at our current residence. Another is that owning a home is higher priority for our long-term plans than owning an EV. I'm guessing that since your parents are your landlords, you won't have any trouble with arranging for installing charging, but you have to have the discussion with your GF about prioritizing getting a new car vs buying a house.
For us, another consideration is that my wife's car is older than mine and is starting to have major mechanical problems. Our hope right now is that we can string it out long enough so that we can first buy a house, and then take a serious look at replacing her car with a Model Y.
You say that you worry that you want it so badly that you worry that your judgement is clouded. This is a very real concern, and shows maturity on your part that you acknowledge it. Don't underestimate the resource you have in your GF - she can help you view it more objectively. She knows you and your situation better than any of us here.
In any case, good luck!
Other than that, I can share you my thoughts on my personal situation:
I'm in a similar situation to you, though I don't make quite as much money as you. However, I anticipate that my income will increase by a fairly significant amount in the next few years (I've reached a point where I can see a clear career path to get to where I want to be). I could stretch to afford a Model 3 right now, but in discussions with my wife, we've determined that it would be better to buy a house first. One reason for this is that we are renting, and there isn't any realistic prospect of being able to charge an EV at our current residence. Another is that owning a home is higher priority for our long-term plans than owning an EV. I'm guessing that since your parents are your landlords, you won't have any trouble with arranging for installing charging, but you have to have the discussion with your GF about prioritizing getting a new car vs buying a house.
For us, another consideration is that my wife's car is older than mine and is starting to have major mechanical problems. Our hope right now is that we can string it out long enough so that we can first buy a house, and then take a serious look at replacing her car with a Model Y.
You say that you worry that you want it so badly that you worry that your judgement is clouded. This is a very real concern, and shows maturity on your part that you acknowledge it. Don't underestimate the resource you have in your GF - she can help you view it more objectively. She knows you and your situation better than any of us here.
In any case, good luck!