IMHO...
If you are going to own a Tesla and be happy, you have to reset your time scale to a couple of years at a time, a time scale of a year or even months won't work out so well for you. You'll find a way to be perpetually miserable.
It's almost hard not to believe that with the investment and assets they have in place today FSD won't become *something* unqiue and pretty great in 2 years or so, but if your hanging on to every update, waiting with bated breath for big news --well, despite anything you heard in the past, that's not going to happen.
Advanced Summon might be about sometime this fall, and that would be quite interesting, I hope, but this is a multi-year game. Our investment was a bet that they'd eventually get it right (on HW3, I sure hope) --but come on now, its a bet. I know Musk said a lot of things, and that can be frustrating, but best to enjoy the coolest and most advanced vehicle on the road RIGHT NOW... and let go of exactly what is coming and when.
Despite being awesome, no one could realistically have bought a Tesla in the last 2-5 years and not thought they were buying very early stage tech, and everything that comes with it. If you did, you were mistaken. I know my 6 month old Tesla will be significantly outdated in 5 years from now (FSD/AP4 HW will not likely be upgradable on my car by then). It's the nature of business, and technology --and this is what we all signed up for.
If you really hate the experience, cut your losses and just sell it. Sit on sidelines for a couple of years and buy something from whoever gets there first --but I think its going to be Tesla, even the analysts are collecting enough information (slowly) to figure out they can actually do this. If your really, really deeply angry, sell it and get a lawyer and see of you can start a class action suit against Tesla --that won't make FSD come any faster (if it got class action status, it might even slow it down further).
But this won't make you happy either --drive and smile friends, you can say you were in the thick of it when you tell your kids and grandkids how cars used to require humans to drive them, and you had one of the first that drove pretty much by itself (or better... : )