Maintaining old software has costs and security risks. And being that you are complaining currently about a saftey related update... I’d bet this one would be considered “critical”
You bought a 50k car knowing full well it received OTA updates, let’s remember that. it matters.
I knew it would get OTA and I'm ok with that; but at time of purchase, there was no requirement to activate a camera.
I will admit that part of my ownership experience was to 'eat the dogfood' and see what living with a tesla would be like. I knew there would be some unknowns and surprises, some good and some not good. I work in software (in the car industry, in fact) and so I'm well aware of how to do updates, how to keep update streams separate and linux has been doing that for decades now. (google farked it up by making one big image for android, sort of, rather than keeping things separate, but they did that on purpose, as evil as it was).
technically, you DO want to keep your bugfixes separate from the UI feature streams. devs often have to check out multiple trees to put fixes in. that's how life is when you write software and even more so, when you have multiple targets (hardware variants).
what I'm asking for is reasonable and should have been architected from the very start. they took the lazy way out and didn't allow for true bugfix and security updates that are separate from features. its one of my criticisms of how tesla does their software.
the android model is broken; the linux desktop/server (and embedded) model works; but vendors are always free to mess it up, sadly. linux (and even qnx) can be updated with just fixes and security updates. its entirely the vendor's fault that they mix things when they could have kept them separate.
anyway, it will be interesting to see who is the first car vendor to do the OTA stuff properly. so far, its not tesla, given that they combine things and dont really offer an opt-out other than NOT pressing a nag button.
will be interesting to see how the lucids, rivians and so on handle their OTAs.
I hope someone eventually gets it right and the others learn from that.