Neither of our two Model 3's had paint issues at all (both Pearl White). What strikes me is the paint on Tesla's is actually an asset, at least the multi-coat colors. It's absolutely gorgeous! Without looking disco. Just beautiful color with depth. After beating them up for 1 year and 1 1/2 year on graveled roads, sand, slush and road tar, they clean up beautifully. Of course, there are tiny rock chips, never had a car that didn't get those, especially on the front plastic. It's no worse on the Model 3 than any of our other nice cars we've had. Chips are unavoidable on the grimy, rural wet and slushy roads we drive on. But step back 5 feet and they both still glisten like new.
And, yes, it's all about the way the Model 3 drives, something people who have never driven one don't understand. I might appreciate this more than most because I'm rarely driving in city traffic, it's all me, the car and the road, curves, dips, rises and all. Ready to dodge deer, rocks, big puddles and the occasional downed tree limb. The corner grip, the smoothness, the instant AWD power and overall responsiveness is a game-changer. Yes, it doesn't have a gear shifter and I like that. It doesn't prevent it from being a true driver's car. A stick-shift is only a necessity on a true driver's car if the car needs a stick-shift. Previous "driver's cars" needed a stick-shift because the alternative was a slushy, imprecise A/T that reduuced the connectedness to the road. The Model 3 doesn't need a stick and it's even more of a "driver's car" because of it. Anyone who doesn't get that is simply stuck in the past of what it means to truely drive. The less that comes between you, your perceptions and the road, the better.