I have a 2013 P85 with ~34k miles. I really believe my DU noise is not within spec. I also feel like at 38mph I get a pulsating kind of noise - or at least that seems to be a speed when I feel like a certain resonance gets hit and it's more noticeable. But I also feel like it's there at higher speeds as well. In fact, I feel like I always hear something from my DU - not just under acceleration but also at steady speed. I also feel like when pushing or letting off the go pedal (which alternates between drive and regen) the tone of the sound changes. I feel like that points to the DU, because if this was a pure tire thing,wouldn't the noise simply be a function of speed, and not related to slight acceleration/deceleration?
Anyway, I just had a service visit, I brought all this up, the tech rode with me and said he thought it was normal. So they crossed that concern off as being due to cupped tires (not sure what that means).
The kicker...they gave me a 2013 P85+ loaner for a week, and holy crap it was way quieter! Or at least it felt that way. It felt like what I've read so many times. I'd hear some noise, but at steady speed I swore I couldn't hear the DU.
This is all pretty fresh. I'm currently far away on vacation. But I've actually been pondering starting a thread just like this. I haven't yet pushed my service center hard on this. Mostly cuz I was leaving on a trip. But I told them when I picked up my car that I probably wouldn't just drop it. I'm really interested to hear other people's experiences when it comes to convincing tesla to replace a DU. Is it like pulling teeth? Do you need to endure it till your DU sounds like a spaceship from the Jetsons (this is how the tech described a bad DU)?
Lastly, to the OP, I don't think you're just making it up. because, I don't think I'm just making it up either.