I'm honestly pretty surprised you don't have a VIN by now,
@2MuchLala! I know you ordered before me with the exact same configuration (except for the FSD). My car is in Chicago right now I think, waiting to be trucked down to KC tomorrow. I'm scheduled to pick it up on Friday at lunchtime.
A part of me envies you, though, as I'm sure you'll be one of the first to receive the updated Matrix headlights, and I'll be one of the very last ones to receive the "pre-updated" MS with the older lights. But I'm very happy to be receiving my car this week, and there will always be cool things on the horizon with Tesla. I honestly never had a problem with the lights in my 2020 MS, and I do kind of like the distinctive styling of the current rear end.
Your EDD is coming soon, I'm sure!