Second this. Tesla batteries are not magical, nor do they defy physics. They have significantly reduced the negative impacts of temperature and high voltage/charge to the point where it's pretty inconsequential where you set your charge setpoint. This is why Tesla is now recommending 90%. It's because you get the most utility out of the range, and I guess in some cases, it allows the car to give you a better SoC reading.
The reality is that the lower the voltage, the longer the battery will last, but there's a tradeoff between utility and longevity. I have a laptop battery that is now 12 years old and still in near perfect condition because I kept it between 20% and 35% SoC. This worked out fine because the laptop was never mobile and was plugged in 100% of the time.