Having read the book on Elon. Some dickishness is evident in the book. Lots of great stuff but also some hard edges showing.
I was giving a presentation on EVs (not solely on Tesla) one evening and an audience member approached my spouse and offered that they had recently moved from the Fremont area and they had a neighbor who worked for Tesla and had some harsh comments specific to EM. Ok, fits with the book. Still totally love the guy.
Dragging your children into the media qualifies as dickish to me. If you are planning to make a public argument about "rights" then it might be a good idea to preserve the privacy rights of your new born child and not hang them out for some of that sweet media buzz. This is shared by the mother presumably. It does show them to be a pretty good match in the "its all about me" category. Again, my spouse was quick to react to dragging the child into the media. EM has kept his other children out of the media which was respectful. What changed?
Selling properties, ok but just do it. It is not an "alert the media" event. It seems to show a lack of self-awareness somehow.
Then the fiasco with the county, the personal attack directed to the individual public health official, again all appearing graceless and dickish in a time when we are ALL experiencing significant frustration in the name of the public good.
Then the "Take me!" line when he realized there might be workers arrested. Only afterward did the promotion go through for the plant manager position. How would workers feel putting themselves at risk and then realize the company CEO might end up in jail. Seems a bit unmoored from an actual functional plan to open the plant.
So yep, EM has managed to move into the occasionally selfish and needlessly dickish category to the extent that my spouse for the first time is less than fully supportive of getting the CT. Given my commitment to EVs, this was not an easy accomplishment.
I am pretty sure I am not alone. Of course this has happened before but there was something about his recent actions when the entire world is stressing under the weight of a global pandemic that had an unpleasantness that may stick to him a little longer than past escapades.
And then I wonder if there is something else at work and this is just a symptom? I tend to think of SpaceX as his happy place but maybe something has come up there. Just be happy to put all this recent stuff in the rear view screen and want to get past it somehow.
I was giving a presentation on EVs (not solely on Tesla) one evening and an audience member approached my spouse and offered that they had recently moved from the Fremont area and they had a neighbor who worked for Tesla and had some harsh comments specific to EM. Ok, fits with the book. Still totally love the guy.
Dragging your children into the media qualifies as dickish to me. If you are planning to make a public argument about "rights" then it might be a good idea to preserve the privacy rights of your new born child and not hang them out for some of that sweet media buzz. This is shared by the mother presumably. It does show them to be a pretty good match in the "its all about me" category. Again, my spouse was quick to react to dragging the child into the media. EM has kept his other children out of the media which was respectful. What changed?
Selling properties, ok but just do it. It is not an "alert the media" event. It seems to show a lack of self-awareness somehow.
Then the fiasco with the county, the personal attack directed to the individual public health official, again all appearing graceless and dickish in a time when we are ALL experiencing significant frustration in the name of the public good.
Then the "Take me!" line when he realized there might be workers arrested. Only afterward did the promotion go through for the plant manager position. How would workers feel putting themselves at risk and then realize the company CEO might end up in jail. Seems a bit unmoored from an actual functional plan to open the plant.
So yep, EM has managed to move into the occasionally selfish and needlessly dickish category to the extent that my spouse for the first time is less than fully supportive of getting the CT. Given my commitment to EVs, this was not an easy accomplishment.
I am pretty sure I am not alone. Of course this has happened before but there was something about his recent actions when the entire world is stressing under the weight of a global pandemic that had an unpleasantness that may stick to him a little longer than past escapades.
And then I wonder if there is something else at work and this is just a symptom? I tend to think of SpaceX as his happy place but maybe something has come up there. Just be happy to put all this recent stuff in the rear view screen and want to get past it somehow.