Op glad you are ok.
For all the posts about "panel gaps" and "poor paint quality", one thing I have noticed is fairly common, is people coming here to this website after accidents to ask about whether the car is totaled or not.
The significant thing there, to me, is that these people are usually "fine" enough to ask about their car, even when sometimes the car looks in rough shape. Modern cars are amazing in this regard, but the model 3 seems to be exceptional at both of its core competencies, which is "driving", and "protecting the occupant in the case of an accident".
While people go down the various rabbit holes complaining about the car, its good to know that, for the main purpose it is used for, its very very good.