I just discovered this thread. The right way to do what the OP wants is to make a TT-30 to 30 amp adapter, either 10-30 or 14-30. Tesla has stopped selling the 10-30 so that may force your hand.
The TT-30 to 14-50 is a second choice. You need to remember to dial down the current to 24 amps. In an ideal world if you forgot to do this, the breaker would pop and remind you to fix things. I prefer to never test breakers.... the breaker might be somewhere you can't reset it, especially if you're plugging in at an RV park after the manager has gone home for the night.
It turns out the car/UMC doesn't care if it sees single phase power plugged into an adapter spec-ed for two phase, or two phase power into an adapter spec-ed for single phase--it just does the right thing. The adapter connection only sees 3 conductors: either Hot1, Hot2 and Ground or Hot, Neutral and Ground. The 10-30 Neutral is connected to the ground conductor in the adapter. The car does insist that the single phase neutral and ground are matched and you get this wrong it will give you an error message, so if you see this you just need to swap the two hot leads. Nothing bad happens.
What I did is to buy an adapter like the one above, and replace the 14-50R with a L6-30R. I have a whole set of 30 amp adapters (6-30, TT-30, L14-30, extension, 10-30) so I standardized on the L6-30, because it was a bunch cheaper and smaller than the 10-30R I could find, and made an L6-30P to 10-30R adapter.
I'm pretty sure the reason Tesla doesn't encourage this sort of thing is because the electrical code deprecates plugging EVSEs into extensions or adapters. There's a good reason for that, but sometimes you have no choice. This is a case where the code makes things a little less safe.
-Snortybartfast