Believe me I know the struggle. I probably fiddled with mine (no exaggeration) probably over 100 times. I have abused them lol.
So in my OCD experience, as I mentioned before, focusing on the ones above the tail lights is the most critical. To focus on those, you need to screw in completely the other ones in the middle of the door so they do not make contact.
Then working with the "main ones", adjust them until both sides grip paper that can't be removed. Ideally, the latching mechanism should make a slight popping sound when opening, which means there's tension/rigidity.
After that, adjust the remaining stops so they also grip paper. This is a bit trickier and sometimes it seems like they don't grip paper properly, so just use your best guess. They shouldn't be over-extended because then they are also pushing away the other stops you just calibrated.
Then with your body weight, press down on the hatch door and look at the gap. Is it impossible to move? Congrats! Does it move still? Back to the drawing board, possible that one or more stops are not out enough.
Saying all this, as I said your pictures look normal.