I've had a 2020 LR (stealth performance) for about 2 years now. My wife and I are older and we are seriously thinking about becoming a one car family. Two cars are a hassle and we really don't need two. Our 2nd car (Mercedes) is kind of old and the Tesla Model 3 really isn't a family car - so we will buy a new one - probably in the spring. Cost, within reason, is not an issue.
My wife and I talked about getting a Model S - but eventually shot it down simply because I really don't think Tesla is an ideal car to own if you don't have easy access to a 2nd car. One accident or even a maintenance issue and you are dealing with a rental for a very long time. Yes, this could happen with a Mercedes, BMW, etc. - but generally repairs don't take weeks or longer (months) - and accidents possibly far longer.
And then there is Elon Musk. I'm afraid that after owning a Model 3 for 2 years I can say that Elon Musk really becomes a louder voice in your head than you want him to be. He's obviously one smart guy but cannot keep his mouth shut for very long. And no, I am not a fan of FSD - and his recent comments on Tesla and FSD are just making things really strange. Tesla needs to clean up it's public image - though that is no reason to buy or not buy one.
Lastly, my Model 3 is far from a luxury car. It is a high tech version of a 1990 Honda. It's a decent car - but not one that really reflects a $55,000 expenditure. Looking at a Model S, it is really not that much better - and for $110,000 - it should be.
So, we will likely get a decent sized Mercedes - possibly BMW, etc. Even though we care about our carbon footprint, we don't put that many miles on a car each year - and certainly don't travel by car. I will miss the EV world, and Tesla is the only EV that is worth buying right now. Unfortunately, the Tesla experience is a bit lacking. Maybe someday, I will be able to tune Elon Musk out of my head.