My wife has a model Y LR. I was waiting for the price to drop on a Model 3P, but in the meantime I test drove a 2023 Model S. The Model 3 and Y turn in better, have a firmer ride and brake pedal. The Model S has a smoother ride, is faster, but is harder to get in and out of.
I ended up purchasing a used 2020 Model S Performance from Tesla. You get an extra 10K or one year on the warranty. Definitely the right choice for me.
Make an appointment and test drive the Model S.