I think it's a fair general statement that if you charge at home, your are getting close to that 100 mpg equivalent cost, but if you charge at a supercharger, you are paying about the same as a non-hybrid ICE car..
Details: if you average 250 wh/mile, and your electricity cost is around $0.10/Kwh, (as it is in Washington), you are paying about 2.5 cents/mile. (4m/Kwh).
The cost at Tesla superchargers that bill by KwH is $0.28/KwH, or about 7 c/mile. (
Supercharging)
If you drive a BMW (or even a Subaru Outback) you are averaging roughly 25mpg, so if gas cost $2.50/gal, you are paying roughly 10c/mile (or 4 times as much as the Tesla). (Obviously mpg varies, as does $/gal - so this is just a very simple but fairly representative example that makes it easy to see the relative cent/mile).
Note that folks in Hawaii who are paying $0.40/Kwh are paying as much for electricity as they would pay for gas in an ICE car.
If you live in NYC and pay $0.23/Kwh, you are paying about 6c/mile, or about the same as you would pay if you drove a Prius and got 50mpg.