I'm not suggesting it as an excuse, but more an honest question as to the relative development effort other companies have put into this feature and their prioritization of such. To be quite frank, the challenges you're having would appear to be a fairly rare edge case. What is preventing you from achieving a full charge between 8pm and 6am, or starting a charge manually from the app when you need to? Apparently you have a Model X with "72kW" chargers (I'll assume you mean 72 amp) - although even a car with the base 48 amp charger could charge from dead flat to 100% in 10 hours...
Except the measurement of what other manufacturers provide.