IMHO the only valid point above is the first one - combustion engines don't like to start in very cold weather. However, gaseous fueled engines are less susceptible to this than liquid fueled engines. The reasons that the rest are invalid in my mind:
- off-grid power systems have a generator auto-start function
- people who use propane in rural installations don't use BBQ cylinders, they use fixed tanks that are hundreds of gallons
- when you leave the property, the electrical usage is very low, so it's much more likely that your renewable generation can keep up
- most backup generators have automatic self-test that starts the engine on a weekly basis if they didn't run during that interval.
Well, having lived my entire life in a climate that includes an actual winter (most years, anyway...) my observation has been that the poor suckers who drive propane conversions invariably have problems getting them going in cold weather. I've also had natural gas gensets included in larger civil projects (backup power for lift stations mostly) and they have generally been reliable, although never put to the real test Murphy requires... 'coldest day with no human around to convince it to start'. They also have a 24/7 maintenance crew available and budgets to build really nice stuff. Some (quite a few) public works guys don't want to see anything that isn't diesel (which must be the worst for cold starts), but how much their stance is based on fact and how much is preference I've never decided.
The question of how large the tank would be is really a variable. It would depend entirely on just how big a system he's proposing and how long he wants it to run. My impression was that he'd use it only when necessary, or a few days a year. I wasn't envisioning a BBQ tank... more likely a few 40 or 100 pound units tied together. I can't imagine he's planning the heat the house with propane - way too expensive!
Auto-start would be ideal. At least a mechanism to attempt an autostart. A cold generator out in a shack that hasn't been tested in a few months wouldn't give me enough confidence to be happy about going to Maui for a few weeks. Automatic testing capability adds more cost. I inferred that the genset would be simple to reduce costs, so even autostart might be more than he's intending.
During the winter period, electrical consumption is typically higher for me, but I run a geoexchange system which is more efficient that the typical A/C unit in the summer. More lighting, more heating requirements (hopefully not baseboard electric, but even forced air requires the fan to keep turning).
Most importantly, losing the ability to heat your home when the temperature falls below zero is a big concern. No power means no HVAC. No heat means the house will eventually freeze and water lines will rupture. I'd walk away from my place in the summer with no concerns. The winter? Not a chance. Someone always checks on it daily.
If the system is substantial enough to require a big fixed tank, big genset, building, automatic transfer switch etc... the cost to install AND maintain is likely to make the pole line from the street look more affordable.