Try it again by triggering the preheating from outside the car with all the doors on the car closed. I think it may behave differently since you were sitting in the driver's seat and the door was open.Well, the plot thickens.
I took my car out for a drive to drain some of the battery (I know, painful).
Charged it up to the max and used my tablet to remotely preheat the car. Over the period of two minutes or so, I dropped from 241 to 239 rated miles with no indication of charging or using any shore power to facilitate heating. Here's the link to the video. The next test will be to see what happens in the early morning (although I generally need to get going in the morning .
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