I asked a 2-year Tesla tech about the subsonic pulse: Normal
Also asked, again, about the HVAC low-frequency rumble, and if Tesla had come up with any additional isolation setup for the compressor. Noise is normal, no updates.
I think Brian-MS90D is right. We notice these sounds more in the silent EV car than in an ICE car, although my 3 Toyota hybrids (Avalon, 2 Prii) HVAC compressors make zero sound when cycling on/off in EV mode. Go figure.