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I think there may actually be some flexibility at the service centers, as far as swapping wheels or tires prior to delivery. Talk to your regional service manager.
If you're in Massachusetts it might be to your advantage to keep the 19" wheels. If you later get the 21" wheels with performance tires, you'll want the 19" rims to mount winter tires for snow season.