nohjames: TeslaMotorsClub is an amazing source of empathetic advice for new EV owners. I rely heavily on advice given by those members that have a large number of "thumbs up" posts (you can see the number in the box to the left of the posts)
If I were you, I'd revisit the service center, in person, and ask to speak with most senior manager. You should definitely be going past the "front line" of techs. Ask for written confirmation that there is nothing in your car that would have caused the fuse to blow, and that the fuse in fact protected your car from additional damage from the defective 3rd party charger.
I would gently insist on this be in writing, as the 3rd party charging company will require a statement to that effect, since they will be paying for the cost of the replacement of the fuse.
If I were you, I'd revisit the service center, in person, and ask to speak with most senior manager. You should definitely be going past the "front line" of techs. Ask for written confirmation that there is nothing in your car that would have caused the fuse to blow, and that the fuse in fact protected your car from additional damage from the defective 3rd party charger.
I would gently insist on this be in writing, as the 3rd party charging company will require a statement to that effect, since they will be paying for the cost of the replacement of the fuse.