To play devil's advocate: You don't really have evidence to prove the root cause here; you're ignoring the possibility of a BMS fault commanding the charger to "do something bad". While I agree that's unlikely and it's probably the charger's fault, that doesn't 100% absolve Tesla. Plus, Tesla's refusal to share any diagnostic information to back up their claim that it's the chargers fault doesn't really help their case, does it?But it's clear cut. If the invoice shows your fuse needs replacement that's because it's had a surge from the charger. There is very little else to cause that and Tesla may not have any further information to tell you. There's nothing fishy going on other than the charger had a fault and it's blown your fuse.
Many modern high performance cars recommend premium for best performance, but can safely run with regular at lower power output by retarding spark, reducing turbo boost, etc.If I grenade an ICE engine because of bad fuel, it isn't the car's fault. (That's why every drop of fuel going into my ICE cars gets a paid receipt!)
But what if there's a bug in the ECU code that causes excessive knock with regular gas? Then grenading the engine with regular "bad gas" is absolutely the manufacturer's fault.