Ah, how about history?
Every NON-Tesla EV appears to have massive value loss on the resale market, AFAIK, without exception.
Second point: Supercharger network.
Third point: OTA updates.
Fourth point: Every EV sold by Volvo just helps them sell more ICE SUV's without penalty. I think we'd all prefer them to buy expensive credits from Tesla to further the cause, vs. just allowing more of the status quo.
That is certainly true of most but not Geely, nor Volvo. They explicitly state to be 100% BEV by 2020:
The Swedish automaker Volvo announced today its plan to phase out internal combustion engine vehicles, including hybrids, and only sell...
electrek.co
Right now in many markets Volvo does not sell pure-ice. Their entire lineup is hybrid and rapidly adding 100% BEV models.
Their parent, Geely, is making similar moves. They even make the BEV London Taxi:
LEVC is a leading manufacturer and retailer of electric vehicles in the UK, including the iconic TX electric black cab.
www.levc.com
Geely bought London Taxi out of receivership and immediately set out to design and produce BEV models.
So, please, place your and our ire on those which refuse to adapt, like Toyota.
To your points, one and two have been true thus far.
Still, Tesla is making broader access to Superchargers and other networks are growing rapidly, so that is less an impediment than it has been.
OTA updates: Volvo does them:
Volvo Cars is rolling out its first ever over-the-air (OTA) software update on the XC40 Recharge, the company’s first fully electric car.
www.media.volvocars.com
The fourth point is mostly, but not entirely, untrue. They're moving rapidly, but they still produce Hybrids as well as BEV.
Maybe you need a fifth point: At present Volvo and parent Geely product both BEV and Hybrid , plus some pure ICE, on multiple modular platforms. Thus far no platform is pure BEV.
And a sixth: Although the navigation and charge locations are provided through Google (natively supports Waze if you prefer) the switchgear, door handles and such are all common with ICE, so no aerodynamic optimization.
And a seventh: even though the lane keeping and adaptive cruise control work pretty well they controls are multi-step and a bit clumsy.
I don't argue that they are perfect from a Teslaphile point of view. They are leagues ahead of most of their competitors.