The car only talks with tesla servers. However many times someone calls the Tesla Api, that api on the server in the cloud could/should cache data, it should not call the car as many times. Any way, that's not specific to the TeslaFi Mobile app, the Tesla API is called by plenty of services too. The TeslaFi web page is backed by a backend service that calls the Tesla API for all its users, every second (while awake) and every minute when sleeping, something like that. I don't believe that the mobile app would be sending thousands of calls and crashing something on the car that way.