First, it's a shame you spent all that money on an outlet and box and cover and hook and GFCI and........
Why so resistant to the cheaper, easier, faster, better, cleaner, nicer, sleeker, sturdier wall charger that's actually designed exactly for this purpose?
I think TMC needs to add a Twitter-style "misleading" disclaimer to the massive 14-50 thread that dominates this site. There's almost no reason to be installing 14-50's for EV charging these days, especially outside.
Second, it's good that you spent the money on a 14-50/GFCI setup because it may have exposed some flaw in your household wiring that could be a shock hazard. You probably have a neutral circuit connected to ground somewhere that's sending current back to the main panel ground bus and tripping your GFCI.
Also, an electrician who can't spell "breaker" might not be so familiar with the topic. Take his "wisdom" with a grain of salt and find an electrician that can track down ground fault issues.