Thank goodness. 2019.16.3 has made an appearance in Stats. Relief is at hand! In the meantime I can count myself amongst the lucky 35.2%. I wish I could say that it was due to strict adherence to my “7-day bake time” philosophy, but in this case I simply never got an update prompt.
For reasons like this though, I recommend the bake time policy! Especially now that you can force updates as soon as they are available, it is even more important to wait... Hopefully with the new firmware Tesla will make it clear in future which update you are getting (up until now at least it kind of requires perusing the Stats data or other sources to see what is getting pushed...). That way you will be able to compare against the forum tales of woe before taking the plunge.
Of course, nothing wrong with being bold and installing right away, but generally it will be a bit of a rocky road...so as long as you are cool with that, go ahead! Somebody has to be the guinea pig after all. Just be sure to give everyone here the heads up after some initial testing!