You arent understanding this...you can have auto low beams WITHOUT auto high beams...if you want to access the lights settings then you can push the stalk forward to 'toggle' the auto high beams...do this and the lights setting come up, immediately push forward again and the light setting stay up but the automatic high beam toggle is set back to OFF. So its push stalk forward, settings pop up, push stalk forward, do whatever you please on the settings screen and then the screen goes away automatically...Easy if you REALLY need to access the lights settings while driving ie turn on fog lights.