So its all fixed. And it was my own user error.
This is what it was when it was all set up- Dual Chargers, with a junction box and Polaris adapters to split off to each charger. It load shared a 50amp breaker, so 40amp or #8 dial. This is the PNW - so we get lots of rain.
So I figured I would take down the dual chargers, and set up a a charging stand right by the panel, and see if it connects.
If it does then I know its the wiring running to it outside, and if it doesnt, then I know if the chargers itself.
I plugged them in, and still not working, so I figured it was the charger, but Everytime I havt attached the chargers It has been vertical, as it was already mounted. So never knew how the looseing/tighting worked. I was already confused as it felt "lefty loose" wass tightening it, when in fact I was wrong. You can see in the picture below that, where the wires are put in, it pulls it towards the front of the charger, not the back, so the whole time it was connected, it wasnt connected a lot - hence the overheating, and to a point there was no contact, and then it wouldnt work.
After noticing this and seeing that "plate" go down when turning left and when tightening it would raise up and close towards the front of the charger I knew it was wrong.
After this, I attached the wires in the correct place, and it light up green an worked right away.
I took them back outside to origoanl setup, Cleaned up all the wires, with a wire brush, then trimmed them and and took time to ensure they were placed and tightened correctly. I turned the power back on and were back to status quo again. Load sharing 40amps.
I appreciate all y'alls help, and glad it was all figured out, and now I can cancel the order for two new wall chargers.
-Andy