BjörnTM
Member
There's an action just called 'Play/Pause' which controls the current media. You can pick that action - go into it and switch it to explicitly be a 'pause' action'. I have it set so on Bluetooth connect to my Tesla, Pause media. If there's a timing issue where the car starts the media after it pauses, (or the phone does - not sure which one does it - it appears to be the phone doing it) then you can add a 'wait' action as well before the pause.
I also found this automation, and it worked great for a while (except for the notification every time it ran) but since the last ios update it requires the manual confirmation to run. Before it didn't. This makes the automation more or less useless..